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"Danielle is thoughtful, kind, and epically supportive. She is so in tune with meeting a child's needs, while still acknowledging you have to meet the parents where they're at first. Our entire family is on a kinder and calmer path with so much less stress in our home."

Brittany + Nick
5 y/o, 3 y/o, 3 months

"We felt very misaligned with our parenting values and like home life felt incredibly chaotic. Now we have a clarity on what we wanted our family life to look like, as well as integration to make it happen."

Jake + Ash McDonald
7, 5, 3 y/o

"A happy affectionate and silly seven-year-old has returned! I think the trigger work is the most beneficial for me personally. It helps not only with my parenting relationship, but our marriage relationship and other relationships too."

Emily
7 + 4 y/o

where defeated parents find validation, support + proven techniques to parent their strong-willed kids with composure, connection, confidence + cooperation

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"I try so hard to stay calm, but...

... EVERYTHING is a battle!"

You're walking on eggshells, never sure what's going to set off your child's BIG emotions...

Your days might be filled with explosive meltdowns and constant negotiations...

Meanwhile, you're suffering silently, with a short fuse, filled with shame, feeling like you're failing them.

 

YOU ARE OVER IT.

It's time to invest in * SANITY + SOLUTIONS *


In 3 Months or Less, You Could Have...

  • Peaceful mornings + playful bedtimes more days than not
  • Peace of mind + confidence in a full toolkit of scripts + strategies
  • Self-compassion, no longer letting criticism of your parenting get to you

 

  • A "new kid" that goes days without a meltdown
  • The support to fully integrate + implement everything you intend to 
  • A close relationship with your child for years to come

 

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Learn how to CONFIDENTLY Parent your Strong-Willed Child WITHOUT Threats + Bribes so you can Finally BREAK FREE of Power Struggles, Guilt + Self-Doubt

Discover the proven tools used by hundreds of parents to crack the code of their child's personality inside this FREE training–

 

IN THIS FREE TRAINING, DANIELLE SHARES...

How you know you're the parent of a strong-willed child

✅ 4 Misconceptions about parenting strong-willed kids that hold you back from the relationship + home you desire

✅ The 4 Critical Kind + Firm scripts that transform the way you communicate

✅ How to "Catch the Arsonist" so you eliminate behaviors at the root

✅ Ways to use an "Incident Report" to gain insight + unlock more patience

 

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DANIELLE BETTMANN

Early Childhood Development Expert, Certified Teacher, Positive Discipline-certified Parent Educator, Host of the Failing Motherhood Podcast


After becoming a parent myself with two girls 15 months apart, the textbooks no longer cut it.

PARENTING WAS SO MUCH HARDER.

  • I was blown away by how different my daughters' personalities were.
  • I couldn't get my 2nd to listen to anything without a 0-60 reaction.
  • I had to come to terms with a temper I didn't know I had.
  • I also struggled to help my husband understand and implement the tools I was learning without nagging/criticizing.

I began to compile the tools I was using to tame my triggers, speak in a way that got through to my daughter, and set us all up for success.

Now I've helped hundreds of parents...

  • Better understand their *spicy* child so they feel so much closer
  • Prevent meltdowns by creating routines that allow for positive outlets for control + attention
  • Get on the same page by committing to + investing in support together

 

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FAILING MOTHERHOOD

If you're riddled with mom guilt, your temper scares you, you're terrified you're screwing up your kids and you're afraid to admit any of those things out loud...

...this podcast is for you.

Every other week we normalize the struggle, share vulnerably about our insecurities, and rally around small wins and truths.

YOU are the mom your kids need.

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"Huge change! I see BIG change in my child's behavior, it is much easier to calm her down if she is in a tantrum, and she's not even getting to that "no return" stage that often. Even my sister has noticed how calm + confident I've become!"

Maria
3 + 1 y/o

"We were battling my strong-willed daughter all the time, managing meltdowns with a new baby at home. Now I feel more relaxed. I feel closer to my older daughter again. My husband and I are learning together and that really helps!"

Niki
4 + 1 y/o

"The most valuable pieces for us have been learning how to change our mindset, understanding the big picture of what is going on with our strong-willed kid, learning scripts of what to say, and experiencing validation and brain-storming during the group calls."

Tiffany + Brian
4 y/o + 8 months

"I have much more confidence as a mom. I definitely have more patience + understanding and my relationship with my child is stronger. He trusts me now. I trust myself now! I didn't trust myself to know what to do. It's been so worth it to feel confident + capable as a mother."

Katie
5 + 7 y/o

"Life is so much more peaceful! My daughter's behavior was out of control. I really didn't know how to handle it. I wanted to figure out a more positive way to help her behavior so she's not mad all the time and we're happier together. This course has done it! She doesn't say she's a bad girl anymore."

Nancy
7 + 4 y/o

"In Wholeheartedly CALM, I created a base; a solid foundation and clear understanding. Now everything makes so much more sense, it's much more doable and consistency is reachable. Thanks to the scripts, specific tools, abundance of examples from real life + inputs from other moms, I feel a HUGE boost in confidence!"

Maria
1 + 3 y/o

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Confidently parent your strong-willed child without caving in or dimming their spark so you can finally break free of power struggles, guilt + self-doubt!