VIP 1:1 + Group Coaching for Parenting Strong-Willed Kids

 

Game-changing insight, tools, + support that crack the code of your child's personality so you can break free of power struggles, cultivate cooperation, and ENJOY your time together!

 

 

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"Danielle is thoughtful, kind, and epically supportive. She is so in tune with meeting a child's needs, while still acknowledging you have to meet the parents where they're at first. Our entire family is on a kinder and calmer path with so much less stress in our home."

Brittany + Nick
5 y/o, 3 y/o, 3 months

"We felt very misaligned with our parenting values and like home life felt incredibly chaotic. Now we have a clarity on what we wanted our family life to look like, as well as integration to make it happen."

Jake + Ash McDonald
7, 5, 3 y/o

"A happy affectionate and silly seven-year-old has returned! I think the trigger work is the most beneficial for me personally. It helps not only with my parenting relationship, but our marriage relationship and other relationships too."

Emily
7 + 4 y/o

YOU ARE THE PARENT YOUR KIDS NEED.

Invest NOW so they come to you LATER.

Parents of strong-willed kids often feel like they’re walking on eggshells around their child’s BIG emotions, quickly reaching their wit’s end when traditional parenting tools just don’t work with them.

 

Often they are made to feel even worse by getting unsolicited advice from family and friends to use even more aggressive forms of punishment. 

 

However, so many families are fiercely determined to use more compassionate tools than they were raised with, but feel at a loss as to what that might be, so they bring their child to therapy, or get them evaluated…. 

…since clearly their child needs more than they have to offer? [not true!] 

 

I call these parents Worrying Warriors, and you might be reading this right now because you relate!

 

Your days might be filled with explosive meltdowns and constant power struggles, meanwhile, you're suffering silently, filled with guilt + shame, feeling like you're failing them.

 

I can SO relate, because even with a degree in early childhood + elementary education, I felt LOST with what to do with my strong-willed second daughter. 

 

I’m now a Positive Discipline-certified parent educator and I specifically equip parents of strong-willed kids age 1-7 with the tools to manage their composure, level up their communication skills, and meet their child's core needs so they can improve their child's behavior, cultivate cooperation, shake off the judgment from others and parent UNAPOLOGETICALLY!

 

I love to shed light on the common misconceptions and mistakes used when parenting strong-willed kids, and what to do instead, including...

  • How to be KIND + FIRM at the same time, holding boundaries without losing your mind
  • How to confidently coach your kids through conflict using collaborative problem-solving
  • How our words as parents inadvertently INVITE defiance and how to work WITH not AGAINST their deep desire for power + control

 

After equipping HUNDREDS of exhausted parents with these tools, I can confidently say you won't find this comprehensive approach paired with high-touch individualized support anywhere else!

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Learn how to CONFIDENTLY Parent your Strong-Willed Child WITHOUT Threats + Bribes or Giving In Altogether so you can Finally BREAK FREE of Power Struggles, Guilt + Self-Doubt

Discover the proven tools used by hundreds of parents to crack the code of their child's personality inside this FREE training–

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YOUR BIGGEST CHEERLEADER

DANIELLE BETTMANN

Early Childhood Development Expert, Certified Teacher, Positive Discipline-certified Parent Educator


My deep respect for children brought me to home visiting, where I realized what happens in a classroom is great, but HOME is what wires kids.

After becoming a parent myself with two girls 15 months apart, the textbooks no longer cut it.

PARENTING WAS SO MUCH HARDER.

  • I was blown away by how different my daughters' personalities were.
  • I couldn't get my 2nd to listen to anything without a 0-60 reaction.
  • I had to come to terms with a temper I didn't know I had.
  • I also struggled to help my husband understand and implement the tools I was learning without nagging/criticizing.

I began to compile the tools I was using to tame my triggers, speak in a way that got through to my daughter, and set us all up for success.

Now I've helped hundreds of parents...

  • Better understand their *spicy* child so they feel so much closer
  • Prevent meltdowns by creating routines that allow for positive outlets for control + attention
  • Get on the same page by committing to + investing in support together

 

Are you unavailable for anything less?

Keep scrolling to learn how to work with me or CLICK HERE to learn more about my story.

I've spent the last 3 years developing this unique methodology to provide the most comprehensive group coaching program experience for my clients. Parenting with clarity, connection + confidence is the key to empowered strong-willed kids AND parents and it’s only possible through the Wholehearted Method.

"We ended up feeling close instead of angry at each other, and I thought that was a HUGE win." 

- Rebekah (current client)

FREE RESOURCES

FREE GUIDE TO CALM BIG EMOTIONS

Download a FREE PDF guide empowering you to help calm your child's BIG emotions.

Includes printable teaching 5 Steps to calm down.

FAILING MOTHERHOOD

If you're riddled with mom guilt, your temper scares you, you're terrified you're screwing up your kids and you're afraid to admit any of those things out loud...

...this podcast is for you.

Every other week we normalize the struggle, share vulnerably about our insecurities, and rally around small wins and truths.

YOU are the mom your kids need.

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FREE GUIDE TO MORE PATIENCE

Download a FREE PDF guide equipping you to makeover your patience in 7 days.

Includes journal prompts, steps to treat your triggers, and new mantras.

"Huge change! I see BIG change in my child's behavior, it is much easier to calm her down if she is in a tantrum, and she's not even getting to that "no return" stage that often. Even my sister has noticed how calm + confident I've become!"

Maria
3 + 1 y/o

"We were battling my strong-willed daughter all the time, managing meltdowns with a new baby at home. Now I feel more relaxed. I feel closer to my older daughter again. My husband and I are learning together and that really helps!"

Niki
4 + 1 y/o

"The most valuable pieces for us have been learning how to change our mindset, understanding the big picture of what is going on with our strong-willed kid, learning scripts of what to say, and experiencing validation and brain-storming during the group calls."

Tiffany + Brian
4 y/o + 8 months

HOW TO WORK WITH ME

SANITY + SOLUTIONS 1:1 COACHING

Comprehensive, individualized VIP support

 

Cultivate COOPERATION.

Tame your TRIGGERS.

Write your FAMILY BUSINESS PLAN.

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Wholeheartedly CALM

11-week VIP group coaching program for parents of strong-willed kids

 NO guilt. NO shame. NO judgment.

JUST GROWTH.

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"I have much more confidence as a mom. I definitely have more patience + understanding and my relationship with my child is stronger. He trusts me now. I trust myself now! I didn't trust myself to know what to do. It's been so worth it to feel confident + capable as a mother."

Katie
5 + 7 y/o

"Life is so much more peaceful! My daughter's behavior was out of control. I really didn't know how to handle it. I wanted to figure out a more positive way to help her behavior so she's not mad all the time and we're happier together. This course has done it! She doesn't say she's a bad girl anymore."

Nancy
7 + 4 y/o

"In Wholeheartedly CALM, I created a base; a solid foundation and clear understanding. Now everything makes so much more sense, it's much more doable and consistency is reachable. Thanks to the scripts, specific tools, abundance of examples from real life + inputs from other moms, I feel a HUGE boost in confidence!"

Maria
1 + 3 y/o

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FREE LIVE MASTERCLASS

Tuesday, Sept 27th at 1:00 PM CENTRAL

Confidently parent your strong-willed child without caving in or dimming their spark so you can finally break free of power struggles, guilt + self-doubt!