Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your STRONG-WILLED Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit or Walking on Eggshells 🙏

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you've tried everything 😩

🚫 you're not alone

🚫 you're not a bad parent

🚫 they're not a bad kid

✅ you just need more tools

Here's the problem:

Typical gentle parenting techniques (let alone traditional punishment/reward parenting)...

... 🛑 BACKFIRE WITH STRONG-WILLED KIDS.

No wonder you feel like you're hitting your head against a wall!

The other problem?

You can't be expected to become a punching bag to their BIG Emotions...

...but right now your reactions ARE making things WORSE not BETTER. 😬

💻 In this FREE MASTERCLASS you'll learn...

✔ How to understand + work WITH the way your *spirited* child is wired

✔ The 4 Critical Kind + Firm Scripts that unlock cooperation in every situation

✔ How to "Catch the Arsonist" so you eliminate behaviors at the root

✔ The path to solidify an open + honest relationship with your child as a teen, creating the priceless foundation of trust + credibility NOW

>>> When you become the CALM + CONFIDENT parent your strong-willed child needs...

...you TRANSFORM the culture of your whole home. 💛

IT STARTS WITH YOU.

IT STARTS TODAY.

HOW DO I KNOW IF THIS A GOOD FIT FOR ME?

HOW DO I KNOW IF MY CHILD IS STRONG-WILLED?

Does this sound like your child?

#1 - They are SENSITIVE. Easily overtired, overly hangry, in tune with other's moods.

#2 - They generally keep it together at school and let ALL the BIG feels out with you at home.

#3 - They have fits of rage + "Alter Ego" Anger. It's like their eyes glaze over + they turn into someone (or something) else and nothing gets through to them in that state.

#4 - Their anger is expressed physically at an older age than their peers. Because their emotions are so BIG, they'll kick or hit still quite often (at home most often) at age 4-6.

#5 - They're very smart, verbal and expressive, yet revert to NOISES rather than words when they don't get what they want.

#6 - Vulnerability is painful, so they have a hard time admitting when they're wrong or apologizing.

#7 - EVERYTHING is a BIG deal. No matter how dramatic or irrational it seems, their reactions are genuine.

#8 - They're obsessed with fairness, and can appear ungrateful or egocentric.

#9 - They appear clingy or regress back to toddler behavior, needing help with things you know they can do independently.

#10 - You can't seem to get ahead of the next MELTDOWN. You're walking on eggshells waiting for the next time their unspoken expectations come crashing down to reality.

#11 - They question everything. There's not enough logic, reasoning or explanation that's going to change their mind. They're still going to find room to negotiate.

#12 - They live life on their own time, taking FOREVER to get their shoes on, buckles on, go through the bedtime routine...

#13 - They get stuck in a gear. It's not fair. They won't move on or get over it. They keep asking or whining or begging.

Sound familiar?

You can't "cure" your child from being wired this way.

You learn to work WITH them, not AGAINST them.

You equip yourself to be able to know exactly how to manage them and help your child thrive with this type of wiring and work to fully embody the identity of a parent who unapologetically parents this child without added shame and guilt and fear and self-doubt.

Does that sound like something you're ready to do?

Then you're a great fit for this masterclass.

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THIS MASTERCLASS IS A MUST IF YOU WANT TO...

Activate your inner unapologetic power even in the face of a complete meltdown at their own birthday party (while ALL your family, friends, and in-laws watch!)
Find freedom from judgment from others and parent your child in the way that feels right + makes so much sense to you (even when they fall apart over absolutely *nothing*)
Tame your temper + find compassion when you're under fire so you walk away proud + sleep well at night (stop giving yourself black eyes from beating yourself up!)
Establish true behavior change by using this proven but underutilized shift (it's what #1 NY Times Bestseller Atomic Habits says matters most!)
Find the missing link to improving their behavior by learning what actually works with them so you can stop Googling profusely and changing your approach by the day (it's the most effective way to support them!)

REAL PARENTS.

REAL RESULTS.

Right now you may be...

Overthinking every parenting decision you make, from what snack they eat to the way you praise their art (and never feeling good enough)
Feeling inadequate on the days with shocking behavior, convincing yourself your child needs someone other than you to teach them the skills they’re lacking (which is likely not true btw)
Doomscrolling after an endless bedtime, guilt-ridden, replaying moments from the day over + over, telling yourself tomorrow will be a better day (your optimism is admirable!! AND... also the definition of insanity..)
Desperate to figure out how to help your child, getting ads for sensory swings and calm-down corners, while researching long waitlists for therapists and psychologists (or not seeing the outcomes you were hoping for after months of sessions)
Following every parenting account you can find (sometimes inspired, sometimes spiraling out of guilt) + sending articles to your partner that go unread
Really gentle and patient until you aren’t… with no in-between. (and your child might not know which "you" they'll get)
Either doubling down on discipline some days or giving up completely

If any of that sounds familiar, you're in the right place.

HERE’S WHAT I WANT YOU TO HEAR:

You only feel DEFEATED if you’re TRYING!

You only feel GUILTY if you CARE!

Your DEEP desire to be a good parent is what MAKES you one.

BUT- if your days are filled with pushback, it’s hard to feel like a good parent, ESPECIALLY when your in-laws aren't shy in sharing how they think your kids just need a good spanking...

THE GOOD NEWS IS… when you have a handful of effective discipline tools in your pocket… you’re able to step into FULL CONFIDENCE as their parent, and parenting actually becomes a WHOLE LOT EASIER.

It’s possible to have peaceful mornings, playful bedtimes, and days full of connection (even with your strong-willed tiny human)...

AND IT STARTS TODAY -

Pop in an earbud + start diving in!

WHO IS DANIELLE BETTMANN?

👶 Early Childhood Development Expert - B.S.Ed.
🧮 Certified PreK + Elementary Teacher
😎 Lover of Sunshine, Coffee + the 90's
🤱Imperfect Mom of 2, Married for 14+ years
📝 Positive Discipline certified Parent Educator
🎙 Host of the Failing Motherhood Podcast

...helping hundreds of defeated parents find validation, support + proven techniques to parent their strong-willed kids with composure, connection, confidence + cooperation.

YOU BELONG HERE 💛

YOU are the parent your kids need. 🫶

With more tools, you'll soon feel like it.